Category: Let's talk
The thing is, For a really good while, I have been single and hating it, but at the same time, I really don't know who to trust anymore. I start to feel like I want to get to know someone, but then if I feel I'm getting too close to them or vise-virsa, I just audomaticly turn away from them.
I don't like the fact that this is an issue here, but I'm not sure how to go about changing it. If any of you could help me with this, I would really appreciate it.
Sincerely,
Juliet
Having had experience in the single life before my little double-r came along, I know how you feel. My advice to you would be to not be afraid to become a close friend to a guy and just think of it as a friendship. Eventually, if you two feel your trust and friendship are mutual, you'll grow to where you two can talk about anything and feel free and trusting to each other. Then it may turn out that he's the one, or at least he'll prepare you with more courage so you can continue down the path of finding the one. I hope that helps.
I agree! Take your time with him. Hopefully, he won't pull anything on you.
Perhaps one day you'll meet Romeo and live happily ever after.
Good luck!
Omg this board post is well old, and I don't even see her log on anymore. I pray she has found him now.
I agree though: Friendship based relationship last longer because you already know the other person rather well.
yes indeed; being friends first is key. if it grows into something more, great...if not, at least you've learned from it and will be better prepared for finding that special someone.
To senior and others who keep responding to posts from several years ago, What the hell is wrong with you? Juliet asked for help seven years ago. What's the point of bringing up this post and trying to help her now?
maybe they just wanted their posting number to increase...who knows. lol.
In time for Valentines day. May all Juliets find Romeos and vice versa.
call me odd, always curious to know how these people are getting on now in life, after posting something like this and not keeping in the loop with it. such is life i guess <smile>
people like that has to just get over this love mania!!!!!
it's insane.